I took the girls clothes shopping today and had no idea how much fun that could be. Within reason they bought a few trinkets (sunglasses, hair accessories) while I bought them some wardrobe basics they needed. I truly enjoyed their company and laughter. At the same time I have no obligation to see any other mother or even call any other mother in the world. THAT in itself is a gift. See, I'm just fine by myself and love being single.
My choice to be single is purely due to my HORRIBLE choice in men. For the love, you could put me in a room of 50 men and I'll pick the worst one for me every time. That being said, my choice in friends is awesome. I have the greatest friends in the world! My friends are supportive, fun, loving and all very unique. I'm rebuilding my guy friend population once again as well!
I keep thinking about how complicated my life was. I'm thankful for the simplicity now.
I keep thinking about how anxious I was. I'm so thankful for peace now.
Happy Mother's Day to all my fellow mamas!!!! And a shout out to my former MIL. I spent a while talking to her at the recital and she is soooooo loving towards me. I feel as if she wished Mickey and I were back together. I told her getting back together with an ex is like taking a shower and putting your dirty undies back on. That when people get back together with an ex, well you have to expect there will be a 'honeymoon' period THEN things will go back to the level they left off at. For me, I'm happier being alone than living with someone who makes me feel alone like Mickey did. But it was a very nice compliment......
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